Can a 48-year-old spouse move in? Can your adult child live with you? Can you rent? The federal HOPA rules govern all of this — and most buyers do not fully understand them before they buy, in any state.
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Talk to a Specialist →The federal Housing for Older Persons Act (HOPA) governs 55+ communities across the United States. Under HOPA, a community qualifies as 55+ housing — and is therefore exempt from the Fair Housing Act's prohibition on familial status discrimination — if it meets three requirements:
The 80% rule is important: it means up to 20% of units can be occupied by residents under 55. That figure is a ceiling on how much flexibility a community is legally permitted to have — it is not an entitlement that lets any specific household move a relative in. Whether a given community actually uses that flexibility, and how, is decided by that community's own governing documents, not by HOPA itself. Most well-managed, established 55+ communities maintain well above 80% compliance.
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| One spouse is 55, one is 52 — can we buy? | Yes. HOPA requires at least one resident per unit to be 55 or older. The younger spouse can live there. |
| Can our adult child (age 30) live with us? | Depends entirely on the community's specific rules — some allow it outright, some require a documented live-in-caregiver approval process, and some communities have fought this in court even after the parent has died and the child inherited the home. See our full guide on adult-child caregiver rules before assuming anything. |
| Can minor grandchildren visit? | Yes — guests are permitted. HOPA restrictions apply to permanent residents, not guests. Length of stay rules vary by community. |
| Can we rent the home? | Depends on HOA rules. Many 55+ communities have rental restrictions. Review the HOA rules before buying if rental is a possibility in your future. |
| What if I turn 55 after I buy? | Not applicable — you must be 55 at time of purchase for the age-qualified resident requirement to be met. |
| What happens if a resident dies and the surviving spouse is under 55? | Most HOPA communities have provisions allowing the surviving spouse to remain. Confirm specifics with the HOA. |
Age-restriction and occupancy rules vary by community, not just by state. We can help you get the specific written policy before you buy.
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